Children & Sleep

Is Your Child Getting Enough Sleep?

Back-to-school season is a good time to reset. Here's how to tell if your child is sleep-deprived and how to rebuild healthy habits before the year starts.

4 min readDeirdre Paulson, Ph.D., is a psychologist in Family Medicine
Parent helping a child reset bedtime before the school year starts

Why summer disrupts sleep

Summertime can significantly shift children's sleep habits — later evenings, fewer obligations, and the freedom to sleep in. But as the school year approaches, those drifted schedules become a real problem. Getting back on track takes time, and starting early matters.

Sleep is critical for children's overall well-being, growth, and their ability to learn, play, and socialize. Setting up healthy sleep habits before school begins gives children a meaningful advantage.


How much sleep does a child need?

Children differ in how much sleep they need, when they naturally feel tired, and when they wake. The right amount also changes with age.

Age Group
Recommended Sleep
4–12 months
12–16 hours, including naps
1–2 years
11–14 hours, including naps
3–5 years
10–13 hours, including naps
6–12 years
9–12 hours
13–18 years
8–10 hours

Signs your child isn't getting enough sleep

School struggles

Poor performance, lack of concentration, and forgetfulness.

Emotional signs

Irritability, trouble managing emotions, or persistent sadness.

Physical signs

Headaches, nausea, upset stomach, and trouble waking in the morning.

Low engagement

Withdrawal from activities, low motivation, and reduced social interaction.

If inadequate sleep continues over a prolonged period, children can develop high blood pressure, weight gain, and mental health issues including depression and anxiety.


How to reset sleep before school starts

Begin shifting your children back to a regular schedule a few weeks before school begins. Reintroduce the nightly routine — brushing teeth, reading, then bed. If there is no routine yet, it is never too late to start. Consistent routines help children fall asleep faster, wake up fewer times during the night, and sleep longer overall.

Stick to the same bedtime and wake time every day, including weekends

Encourage physical activity during the day, but avoid overscheduling

Establish a calming wind-down routine before bed

Keep bedrooms dark, cool, and quiet

Avoid caffeine and sugary drinks in the afternoon and evening

Keep screens out of bedrooms — TVs, computers, and phones

Turn off all screens at least one hour before bedtime

Use the bed only for sleeping, not for homework, toys, or TV

Parent and child following a calming bedtime routine before school

Model it yourself

Role modeling healthy sleep habits is one of the most effective things a parent can do. Brush your teeth together, read alongside them, or practice relaxing in a shared space before their bedtime. Children observe and learn from what they see.

Child sleeping peacefully after a healthy bedtime routine

When to seek help

If your child is consistently struggling with sleep, speak with a pediatrician, family medicine physician, or mental health professional. They can work with you to identify the cause and develop a plan to restore healthy sleep before issues compound.